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I’ve heard so many friends of mine got married recently. Oh God… I mean…got married…?!! In the age of early 20’s…?!! Gosh… Well I don’t think that they’re still too young, it’s just…oh God…

Marriage…What does it mean…? Permanent long-term relationship??? A way to fulfill God’s assignments??? Or…it’s juz a way to have the lust legallized…??? The last one must be an excuse for a fool then…

Well…It’s not easy to say "Yes, I do". Many things we’ve got to think first before saying that three words. It’s a real big heavy decision. So much factors and parties will be involved, and definitely, we can’t ignore them. Because marriage is not only about the "two of us". It’s all bout two families, two different cultures, two different customs, two different characters, two different minds…And it’s all about how we could arrange them in harmony…under the name of God of course…

Now take a look at ourselves. Have we been well-prepared to do this…??? Surely we’re talking about our physical and mental condition. I mean, at least you know that a marriage will lead you to an independent responsibility, separated from other’s involvement. Did I mention the material matters…??? Yes of course it takes a portion. On the other hand, the "click" to your partner really does influence your mental performance.

Well…that’s just my opinion. For me, a marriage is not only about love matters. It will involve many factors that I’ve written above. If you all guys have all those things with you, then just go…!!!
If you ask me whether I would get married in my age now, of course I would say "Yes, I’d love to". Nobody doesn’t want to get married, right??? But I would also say "I won’t do it now". I’m just…not well-prepared (I think)…hehehe…Or maybe…I haven’t met that "click"…??? Only God knows…And still…It’s not easy to say "Yes, I do"…