Wanna Know Him/Her More? “Date” His/Her Friends…
Well…First, I’m gonna underline the title above. “Wanna know him/her more? Date his/her friends…”. Do you guys know exactly what I mean…?
Sometimes, you have no idea bout someone’s character. Indeed, you have to know so much more bout this guy. So what do you have to do? Ask him/her straightly bout his/her personality??? Having a long tiring debate and arguing until the edge of mind juz to know his/her way of thinking??? Ask his/her opinion bout everything juz to know his/her taste??? Hmm…nope. Definitely, those aren’t the exact ways to know someone better.
Actually, there’s an easy way to give you a brief resume bout someone. Juz look at his/her friends. Analyze their habbits, their way of speaking, their consideration on others, their way to express what they feel, and so much more. Surely, those may help you in finding who the hell he/she is. I’ve ever heard bout a phrase that says, “Our friends reflect ourselves”. Yep, I think that’s right. An “A” type person would possibly join an “A” type group, and a “Z” type person would possibly belong to “Z” type group also. It’s all because some people with the same interests, the same way of thinking, the same habbits, the same characters, even the same hobbies, will adjust easily one to another. Then look at his/her friends’ opinion bout him/her. If they vote in one line statement, they might be right, you can believe them. But if there’s only 1 to 5 personnel who stands for one statement, of course you have to look for another “second opinion”, don’t be blind.
Ok, maybe we can’t make the statement above as a prorate condition. Maybe we have to tend to consider it juz as a major. Coz in fact, there must be a difference in each person. But at least, it may help us to “read” a little bit of someone’s line. Juz look at his/her friends, analyze them, ask them to say their opinion bout this guy, and pop…!!! It’s done…You don’t wanna judge a book by its cover, do you…???